Therefore, you must enter relationship with purpose to learn of purpose. As you have entered relationships for folly, you have learned of folly; as you have entered relationships of pain, you have learned of pain. You must recognize pain as pain or you will continue to seek it as pleasure. Unfortunately, this may take a great deal of time. But fortunately for you, you do not have this kind of time. The demands of your world are requiring that you lay aside learning at your own pace. You must now learn at the pace that is required.